It matters who you partner with.

What happens in Vegas stays in Vegas right?

Nope... lol

Not when it comes to your partner. The person you've decided to share a life, special moments, special meaning, and even your body with. The reality is that when we begin enmeshing our life with another, we are enmeshing energies. So it matters... it really matters because what someone else has going on in their energy will be brought into the relationship and, inevitably, into you.

Think of a relationship not as two separate people having their own separate experience inside a relationship but as two people creating a living, breathing, energetic organism that is connecting and influencing each person. If one partner is allowing their energy to become "dirty" - meaning destructive, dishonest, deceptive, neglected, abused, misaligned, or toxic, you can feel it. You may not know exactly what you're feeling, but you will feel that something is off.

And this is GOOD! Your intuition is designed to pick up on subtle energy as a high-level safety mechanism. We are all constantly picking up on subtle energy at a subconscious level. Our intuition will then be alerted when those subtle cues pick up something discordant, unhealthy, unsafe, or misaligned to us. 

In relationships, if you are allowing your energy to enmesh with "dirty" energy, it has a very real impact on how you feel and how your energy vibrates. It impacts your clarity, it leaves you irritated, it diminishes your radiance, and it alters what you attract.

It's similar to how a body functions when a virus penetrates it.

When a virus is present, the immune response is alerted, the antibodies are released, the virus is encircled and eventually destroyed. This is all done subconsciously. It's this innate intelligence that knows what's going on and how to activate the immune system to protect the body. We need our immune system just as we need our mindfulness as an agent of protection and discernment for the energies we are enmeshing with.


When you go into any kind of relationship, that relationship becomes its own organism. It connects you both and has real affects on both. There's nothing that is ever actually left behind. It's all there in the field.

This energetic organism becomes a very real, dynamic, and living energy that will eventually give back to you what was put into it. This is true for all relationships: lovers, friendships, family, and colleagues. Mindfulness of the energy we bring into and choose to connect with in a relationship is our soul's "immune system." If either one of you is bringing in a "virus," bringing in neglect, hate, dishonesty, distrust, or dishonor, it acts like a poison seeping into the relationship that will eventually manifest. When there is a pure and clear quality to the energy in your relationship, it creates a place of healing, upliftment, and an energy that draws in the best life has to offer for everyone involved.

For those of you seeking love, look for someone of high moral character and someone who shows care for their mind, body, heart, and soul. Even if there are moments or phases where someone is off their game, notice how they get back on. If they care to understand themselves and to heal. The level of care someone gives to themselves is the level of care they will bring to a relationship.

Trust yourself.

Remember that your intuition is always picking up on cues that your eyes and ears may never notice.

Love,

Madeline